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Have you heard about hands-free orgasms from a friend or read about it online and want to learn how to orgasm hands-free, too? Well, you’ve come to the right place!
Orgasming without any manual stimulation of your genitalia might seem like a mission impossible, but in reality, it is an attainable skill for all genders. And even if you don’t succeed, it can help you gain more control over your sexual energy.
The paradoxical thing about having a hands-free orgasm is that it requires you to tone down the desire to come. It may sound like a zen quote, but orgasm usually comes to those who are not driven by a desperate desire. It’s all about the journey itself rather than the destination.
Are you ready to learn how to orgasm hands-free? Let’s talk about the “how” and the best techniques for hands-free pleasure.
A hands-free orgasm is the type of orgasm when you climax without using your hands to stimulate your genitals or other erogenous zones. You can have a hands-free orgasm solo or with a partner.
A touch-free orgasm is similar to a hands-free orgasm but even more advanced. A touch-free orgasm is the type of sexual climax when you are not using any type of hands-on stimulation to achieve an orgasm. It means no hands, no toys, and no oral stimulation from a partner. You rely solely on the mind-to-body connection and engaging certain muscles in your body.
We know what you might be thinking: How is that possible?! Well, the truth is that it is, and anyone can try to master a touch-free orgasm skill. But you need to know one thing – a touch-free orgasm is not strictly a mental skill. It requires really strong pelvic floor muscles and, like many other advanced sexual skills, it should start with lots of repetitions of Kegel exercises.
When it comes to achieving hands-free (or touch-free) orgasms, your gender or what type of genitals you have doesn’t matter. Depending on your body and sexual preferences, you might try different techniques and types of stimulation, but the overall idea is the same. Especially when it comes to touch-free orgasms – the key is an engaged, strong pelvic floor, which all genders can have with the help of exercises.
Are you ready to explore how to have a hands-free orgasm? Whether you’re flying solo or are experimenting with a partner, here are some great hands-free orgasm techniques to try:
Nipples are one of the many erogenous zones in your body and when stimulated, can bring a ton of pleasure. For some, even nipple-induced orgasms. Everyone’s different, though, so before you try nipple stimulation on yourself or a partner, make sure it feels good.
Tantric sex is a practice that involves an intentional, deep connection to yourself or your partner in an erotic setting. It involves eye gazing, international slow touch, and breathing techniques while abstaining from orgasm to build sexual tension within you or between you and your partner. Tantric practice can offer great pleasure and, for some, even hands-free orgasms.
Shower head masturbation, anyone? If you have a detachable shower head, use it to stimulate the vulva and the clitoris until your climax. Even if you don’t have an attachable shower head but have a bath, you can use the stream from the faucet in a similar fashion. Position yourself so that the water from the faucet flows directly on your genitals, and have fun.
Consider using a wearable sex toy or a hands-free vibrator that doesn’t require you to hold it. All you need to do is lie down and relax. The vibe will do all the work for you.
Using sex toys is also one of the best ways to achieve a hands-free prostate orgasm for people with penises. Use the prostate massager while you focus on engaging your pelvic floor muscles. Prostate stimulation can offer a lot of pleasure and might even help you discover multiple orgasms. Who doesn’t want that?
Erotic hypnosis is a type of hypnosis where a professional puts you into a trance-like erotic state. It’s like a guided erotic meditation that can bring you immersing pleasure and, in some cases, might even bring you to an orgasm. It involves full-body relaxation techniques and breathing exercises and can be a very interesting experience to go through.
Humping and grinding involves rubbing your genitals on furniture, various objects like pillows, or your partner. Dry humping is a seriously underrated activity that can be super hot and very pleasurable. The perfect way to achieve a satisfying hands-free orgasm solo or with a partner.
Sex toy mounts are another great hands-free orgasm technique. You can start as simple as using a dildo with a suction cup that you can attach to a wall in the shower or any other surface. If you’re a more seasoned player, consider investing in a Sybian or a fuck machine. It’s more expensive, and these mounts often take up a lot of space, but it can be a great way to expand your erotic repertoire and bring novelty into the bedroom.
Receiving (or giving) oral sex from your partner is a great way to engage in hands-free pleasure. Oral sex is an effective way to achieve an orgasm for many people, and it can be super sexy and hot to have your partner between your legs.
If you’re a gym lover, you can try having a coregasm, aka exercise-induces orgasm, which some people with super strong core and abs experience during a workout. That’s definitely a hands-free orgasm technique worth trying, and you don’t have to be at the gym for it.
If you’re ready to take your hands-free orgasm exploration to the next level, try this touch-free orgasm technique at home to discover a different kind of pleasure. This works for all genders – just relax and have fun!
Also, keep in mind that this touch-free orgasm practice might take to master – you might not be able to reach an orgasm this way the first time around. Be patient, and look at this as a way to explore a new side of your sexuality.
Undress or wear loose clothes that allow your intimate areas to breathe and leave enough space for an unrestricted erection. Soft, loose clothing might even be better in some cases as it offers extra sensation and friction against your genitals. Lie down comfortably.
You want to be fresh and fully sober, so choose the time of day when you usually feel the most active and abstain from any intoxicants. Take some time to get comfortable, keep your eyes closed, relax completely, and observe your breath.
When you feel pleasantly relaxed, start concentrating on the feeling in your genitalia. Start by just observing if you feel anything down there. Take your time and explore the feeling. Imagine your sexual organs filling with blood. With your eyes closed, try visualizing either your penis getting erect or your labia and clitoris filling with blood and your vagina opening up, getting moist.
Once you establish a definite response between your genitals (which might take more than one session) so you can willingly control the blood flow to your sex organs, you can start engaging your pelvic floor muscles. Imagine you’re doing your Kegel exercises.
Focus on the journey, not the destination here. Avoid getting impatient and frustrated. Instead, focus on the sensations that arise when you engage your pelvic floor muscles and visualize your genitals getting aroused. By now, you should definitely feel pleasant sensations in your intimate region. Focus on that, and keep going.
The point of this endeavor is to learn how to relax and feel in control of your sexual response. When doing Kegels, it is all about rhythm, so find the one that works for you and align it with relaxed breathing. You will want to achieve a fully balanced inhale and exhale of equal length and with an equal number of Kegel contractions.
Abstaining from coming and steady practice will eventually bring you to the very threshold of orgasm, only to discover that the last mile might just be the longest one. The typical response cycle goes like this: whenever an orgasm comes within your reach, the body tenses up, your breathing becomes unsteady, and the orgasm slips away.
Accept it and just try to remain as relaxed as possible for as long as possible. Edging will enhance the pleasure and put you in a euphoric state that you can experience with your full body. It can feel even more pleasurable than the orgasm itself.
Once you edge a couple of times and feel yourself enter that blissful full-body pleasure state, you might choose to continue there, or the next time you get close to the edge of an orgasm, you might choose to let yourself go and cross that line.
You can see everyone can learn how to cum hands-free. It can be a super fun solo practice to enhance your masturbation routine or a fun experiment to take on together with your partner to breathe in some fresh air into your sexual routine and deepen your intimacy.
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