For trans and gender nonconforming people, sex toys can be a pivotal piece in reconnecting with your sense of pleasure and what it’s like to feel present in your body. Yet it can feel frustrating to feel like you’re surrounded by products and brands that only cater to cisgender people.
We aim to help change that by providing options for sex toys for trans men. These options are available to people no matter what type of gender affirming care they’ve had, including hormone treatment and/or surgeries. So, keep reading to find the best sex toys for trans men, no matter where you’re at in your transition.
These are soft, flexible toys designed to fit over a penis to enhance sensation during solo or partnered play. Penis sleeves for trans men may provide friction and stimulating pressure.
Some trans men who have enlarged clitoris from testosterone treatment but haven’t undergone bottom surgery may also be able to use them. These individuals should look for penis sleeves that are open-ended or are made from stretchable materials. Some trans-inclusive brands have created devices specifically for trans men that offer a fit and texture that helps simulate penetration!
For those who’ve had bottom surgery (such as metoidioplasty or phalloplasty), sleeves may be used depending on where you’re at in the healing process. It’s important to wait until post-op swelling has fully resolved and a medical provider has cleared you for sexual activity.
Vibrators for trans men offer targeted stimulation that may be external or internal. These may include vibrating toys that you can put a penis or enlarged clitoris in, vibrating cock rings, or “grinders” that act as a vibrating base to grind on or as the base for strap-ons.
The best penis vibrators really depend on your needs and desires, as well as what gender-affirming care you’ve received. Penis vibrators may be more accessible than penis sleeves for people who haven’t had bottom surgery or don’t have clitoral growth from testosterone.
When shopping for a penis vibrators, consider what types of sensation you want to experience and what will feel validating for your gender-identity.
When it comes to trans men sex toys, penis sleeves and vibrators are two distinct types of toys. Penis sleeves provide friction and pressure that allow for stroking and grinding. On the other hand, vibrators give targeted, often more intense vibrations, either externally, internally or both.
Depending on the toy and the body, both penis leaves and vibrators can be used by people who have an enlarged clitoris, however, most sleeves require a larger surface area for a snug fit. Vibrators on the other hand can be used regardless of penis or clitoral size.
If you have undergone bottom surgery, or if you’re planning on getting it, the best trans sex toys for you depends on your healing and what type of sensitivity you’ve developed.
Choosing the right sex toy after or during your transition can feel incredibly vulnerable and bring up a lot of feelings around your body and gender. This is completely normal, and it’s important to remember that you deserve pleasure that feels supportive and nurturing for you and your body.
You’ll want to consider what type of sensitivity a specific toy provides, if it’ll fit with your body, if the materials feel comfortable to you and are body-safe, and of course, if the price fits in your budget. Ultimately, it comes down to personal preference, comfort, and the type of sensations that feel affirming and pleasurable to you.
The F1S V2 is a next generation penis stimulator that fuses original LELO technology and futuristic design, allowing you to customize your experience and measure your performance. Get ready to cover your entire erogenous area with deep, penetrating vibrations, regardless of your shape and size.
Those who want external stimulation may enjoy the TOR 3 pleasure ring. This vibrating penis ring is made of premium body-safe silicone, making it a perfect fit for all shapes and sizes, with an app that allows for unique customization options.
Penis sleeves and vibrators for trans are two distinct categories of toys. Both, however, allow for exploring your pleasure and your sexuality with new sensations, whether you’re by yourself or with a partner.
As a quick recap – penis sleeves offer more friction and pressure while vibrators give targeted, sometimes intense pleasure externally or internally.
As with anything having to do with your sexuality, exploring these sex toys for trans men is all about finding what works for you and what feels most pleasurable for your body. Finding the right toy may take trial and error, especially if your body is undergoing consistent changes. But have fun with the process and allow it to be part of the evolution of your gender and getting to know yourself and your body on a deeper level.
Discover pleasure with:
SONA 2
ENIGMA
F1S V2
HUGO 2
GIGI 3
SORAYA Wave
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